What might religious leaders participate in during their spare time? Recently, this writer ventured with two friends, each fellow ministers, to see the new movie titled I Swear. From the preview, I understood which the film was about a man experiencing Tourette syndrome. What I had not realize turned out to be the fact it chronicled a real person: the central character, that was featured in a 1989 program who later was awarded a royal honor in recognition of their efforts to inform the public about the condition as well as support fellow sufferers.
Prior to that documentary, many individuals did not known about TS. Nearly 40 years later, most individuals roughly knows its nature, but it is often seen as a joke – especially on the comedy circuit.
From the teaser, it was evident that this movie aimed to balance by simultaneously using the clear funny moments of a person shouting the most inappropriate phrases at inopportune times while also working to carry on Davidson’s efforts in educating the public in a compassionate manner. It is hoped it’s not a spoiler to mention it was successful in achieving both goals – however naturally this realization came after watching.
When the movie was starting, a teenager seated ahead from us unexpectedly exclaimed a string of profanities. Initially, it seemed this was a joke – although a joke quite offensive. However, it quickly became apparent that this was someone genuinely with Tourette syndrome: a teenager accompanied by his father.
While the story progressed, the same with the young man – with no obvious response by neither his father or anyone among the viewers. I felt slightly torn. Obviously, this represented an important moment for the boy and his father to see the no doubt extremely challenging daily reality portrayed in a film, and I felt glad which they received that opportunity. But was it fair that I and the entire audience in the theater could hardly hear the dialogue as a result? Would the theater have been able to organize a dedicated session – like many cinemas regularly do for individuals with special needs usually?
It's regrettable to admit that I actually thought about complaining – however, not to the parent himself (I’m not a monster), instead to the theater management of the theatre. However, both of my clearly more charitable colleagues appeared to accepted with what was happening. Plus, I recalled there was an imagined but impactful episode from Extras where Ricky Gervais’s the protagonist objects about a young person causing a disturbance in a restaurant, unaware that the child has Down’s syndrome. He faced backlash the resultant bad press – so my complaint would have been far worse since I knew the boy literally had no choice.
Thankfully, my better nature took over and something extraordinary unfolded during the following hour and a half. First, I gradually became accustomed to the once-intrusive utterances. Later, as the film built to a peak and the audience observed the incredibly liberating impact which the protagonist's special programs offered on many participants, I felt humbled and deeply honored to share this event alongside individuals with firsthand knowledge not only as actors – although the lead actor's performance as Davidson was excellent and in my view, deserving of recognition.
I’ve had comparable situations while watching films in the past – watching The King’s Speech alongside a friend with a stammer and their language pathologist spouse, or bumping into actual veterans of the Normandy landings in the foyer after Saving Private Ryan – but that experience was far more impactful. It was like an enhanced viewing, but instead of physical effects and splashes touching viewers, the people were right next to you stating, “This goes beyond a film. It reflects my life.” Then using foul language. A memorable line.
So I didn’t complain. When the film ended, I went so far as to approached and expressed gratitude to Joe – who was fourteen – and Mark, guardian, for the honor of their presence, that without a doubt enhanced our viewing more meaningful compared to what we expected. Afterwards conversed at length then captured a memory together – during which the group shouted a rude word alongside the boy.
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